Sunday, May 18, 2014

God’s Rules of Engagement

Sunday, May 18, 2014

God’s Rules of Engagement

Scripture: John 11:45–53 (NKJV)

This passage provides a clear example of God’s “rules of engagement” in our lives. Even though God is completely sovereign, He respects human free will. As His creation, we have the choice to believe in the Lord Jesus and follow Him, or to reject Him and diminish His influence in our lives.

The good news is that God, in His sovereignty, accomplishes His purposes regardless of human choices — and even human sin. He works through us, with us, or sometimes in spite of us, to bring about His perfect plan.


What I Want You to Know

  1. People really do have free will (John 11:45–46). God does not force our hearts; He invites us to choose Him.

  2. Our free will often gravitates toward our own control (John 11:47–48). We tend to want to rule our own little kingdoms rather than be cherished citizens in God’s eternal kingdom.

  3. God’s will shall be done, no matter what choices humans make. His plan is unstoppable and perfect, even when we falter.


What I Want You to Do

  1. Ask yourself: What will it take for me to fully surrender to God?

  2. Reflect: Am I willing to trust completely in the sovereignty and efficiency of God?

Take a moment today to let these questions guide your heart and align your will with His. When we surrender, we participate in God’s glorious plan, and our lives become a testimony of His faithfulness.

The Thing That Matters Dear Heavenly Father

“I thank You for Your great plan, Father, and I don’t even have to know it. You know I’ve never had to know what You were up to. I’ve never been the architect, and I’ve never been the contractor. It was always a delight to just be a day worker — to do what You told me for just one day. Sometimes it was to stand in a very strategic position, and sometimes it was merely to collect garbage, but all of it was glorious when done for You and in Your name.”
— Margaret Gaines, former missionary to the Arab people in Jerusalem, 1964–1996

Reading these words stirred my heart, especially the idea that even the simplest tasks can be glorious when done for God. Life calls us to many different roles — some requiring courage and boldness, others consisting of everyday tasks we may take for granted. But whatever we do, when we do it as unto the Lord, it is meaningful and glorious.

  • Loving your spouse and children with unselfish, sacrificial love

  • Showing kindness to others even when it’s difficult

  • Taking the time to do small acts that bring joy to loved ones

  • Speaking words of encouragement and blessing

All of these actions, done with a heart toward God, are glorious.

Whatever your assignment today, I pray you give it your best. Live and love as though there is no tomorrow, and take a moment to look up and see the Father’s smile.

“Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.”
— 1 Corinthians 10:31 (NIV)

 Acts 24:16 (NKJV): “I myself always strive to have a conscience without offense toward God and men.”

Something truly matters to you — not a minor hunger pang or a small daily irritation, but something so significant that you’re willing to sacrifice, grow, and pursue it with passion. Some might call this your vision or passion.

Your vision is like a pair of 3-D glasses: people may see you weaving and bobbing and think you’re a little unusual, but you see things others cannot. That vision drives your actions and sets you apart.

However, a word of caution: vision leaks, and passion can fade. If you don’t commit to keeping what truly matters as a priority, life can become consumed with minor distractions. One day, you may realize you spent your time on things that didn’t truly matter.

Today, wear those “3-D glasses.” View your life through the lens of what matters most. Let that vision guide your choices, inspire your actions, and keep your heart aligned with God’s purpose.


Wherever you are

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Wherever You Are — Be All There

Scripture Reference:

  • Matthew 18:2–3 (NKJV): “Then Jesus called a little child to Him, set him in the midst of them, and said, ‘Assuredly, I say to you, unless you are converted and become as little children, you will by no means enter the kingdom of heaven.’”

Why not be happy — at least most of the time? Of course, there will be seasons when happiness seems impossible. A few years ago, when my sister passed away, the grief was so deep that joy felt out of reach. Those days, however, are the exception, not the norm.

One characteristic I have noticed in genuinely happy people is that they live in the moment. They do not allow the past — even just a few minutes earlier — to rob them of the opportunity for joy. They do not let worries about the future steal the happiness of now.

I’ve seen this modeled in my own family. My dad, at 80 years of age, can find joy at the drop of a hat — even during life’s most difficult seasons. My wife of over 35 years is the same. Even in challenging times, she finds a way to laugh and bring joy into our lives. Her happiness is contagious, reminding me that the secret lies in living fully in the moment.


Thursday, May 22, 2014

Wherever You Are — Be All There (Part 2)

Since becoming a grandparent, I’m learning this principle even more deeply. The world can be falling apart, but all my grandchildren want is a cookie and a hug — right now. Sharing these moments, giving a little “papa sugar,” and offering a “bear hug” reminds me that nothing breeds happiness like fully embracing the present.

Perhaps this is why Jesus said we must be like little children to enter the kingdom of heaven. Children naturally live in the now — unburdened by the past or anxious about the future.

I’ll admit, I am still learning this principle. At times, the backwash of yesterday or the tide of tomorrow steals my happiness. But I’m improving, and it is a choice — one that we can all make today.

Let us choose to be happy today by living fully in the moment. Yesterday is gone, tomorrow is uncertain, and right now is a gift. Wherever we are, let’s be all there — joyfully, fully present, and alive in the moment.

Could You Turn Down $350,000.00?

Monday, May 19, 2014

Could You Turn Down $350,000?

“The following entry is from 2011, and it seems especially relevant for this season.”

Quote: “Money is good only if you really need something.” — Larry Bird

Jill Leone, Larry Bird’s agent, recalled that he once turned down $350,000 for an endorsement while with the Celtics. Bird explained: “If I miss my afternoon nap, I won’t be rested enough to play my best.”

Though he may not have realized it, Larry Bird was practicing what we might call Sabbath living — the courage to set limits, finish responsibilities, and embrace restorative rest.

You might think, “That was easy for Larry Bird; he made millions playing basketball.” But for Christians, it can be even easier. We trust in our Father God, who promises to withhold no good thing from us (Psalm 84:11) and to provide, protect, and bless us far beyond what we could imagine (Ephesians 3:20). True rest and wise boundaries flow naturally when we rely on God’s provision rather than chasing worldly gains.


Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Take Action!

Scripture Reference:

  • Colossians 4:5 (NIV): “Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity.”

Planning, preparing, and praying are all valuable and necessary, but there comes a time when action is required. Today, choose to take one wise step toward addressing the challenge in front of you.

Remember, the faithful accumulation of small, wise actions eventually leads to meaningful progress. Don’t wait for perfection or the “right moment.” Do something today — even a tiny step can move you closer to God’s purpose for your life.

Necessary Sins

encouraging word

Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.

 




- Colossians 3:12 (NLT) | View in Context

Friday, May 16, 2014

The Long and Winding Road



Friday, May 16, 2014

The Long and Winding Road

Scripture Reference:

  • Proverbs 15:24 (NKJV): “The way of life winds upward for the wise, that he may turn away from hell below.”

While I’m not a Beatles fan, the title of Paul McCartney’s song, The Long and Winding Road, beautifully captures the theme of today’s proverb. Life is a journey — long, winding, and full of unexpected twists and turns.

Along the way, there will be moments of joy and seasons of sorrow. There will be stretches that feel monotonous and uneventful, followed by times when life moves so quickly that you find yourself gripping the steering wheel tightly, whispering prayers under your breath.

The key is to keep winding your way upward by making wise, God-honoring decisions. God does not condemn us every time we stumble. There will be potholes, distractions, and wrong turns along the way. When these challenges arise, the solution is simple: repent, adjust, and continue moving forward toward the upward path.

By God’s grace, staying on this path will ultimately lead you home — to Heaven, your eternal destination. Trust Him with the journey, even when the road feels long and winding.

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

What are you going to do with that money?


 

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

What Are You Going to Do With That Money?

Scripture Reference:

  • 1 Timothy 3:2–7 (NKJV): “A bishop then must be…not greedy for money…”

  • 1 Timothy 6:10 (NKJV): “For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil…”

There is nothing sadder than a life ruled by money. When life is reduced to a bottom-line mentality, everything — family, friendships, faith, principles, and character — is assigned a price. Tragically, a life dominated by greed eventually leads to sorrow and spiritual ruin.

Here’s a simple antidote: regularly ask yourself what you are going to do with the money you hope to receive.

 Sometimes my kids want something unexpected, or beyond our budget, and they remind me, “I thought that was why you worked.” Over the years, I’ve reminded myself and my family why I work:

  • I work not just to pay bills, but to provide a good life for my family.

  • I work not to buy a bigger house, but to provide a home.

  • I work not to accumulate money, but to support ministry and dreams.

  • I work so my family can enjoy life, create memories, and have fun.

  • I work to be generous and bless others.

The bottom line: hold on to your money without letting it hold on to you. Before spending, honestly ask: Will this glorify God and bless people? If not, it may be time to confront greed and realign your priorities.


Thursday, May 15, 2014

But Their Heart Was in the Right Place

Scripture Reference:

  • Matthew 25:21 (NKJV): “His lord said to him, ‘Well done…’”

Having a good heart is not enough. One of the saddest things anyone could hear about their life at a funeral is: “They meant well.” Jesus sets a higher standard: “Well done.”

It’s not enough to intend to do good; we must take action and do it well.

Encouragement for Today:
Do something well today. Invest your time, energy, and resources into actions that honor God and bless others. Let your life be measured not by intentions alone, but by faithful, purposeful deeds.

The proverbs

Monday, May 12, 2014

The Proverbs 31 Mother

Scripture Reference:

  • Proverbs 31:1–2 (NKJV): “The words of King Lemuel, the utterance which his mother taught him: ‘What, my son? And what, son of my womb? And what, son of my vows?’”

When I read today’s proverb, the phrase “son of my vows” stood out to me. It reminded me of Hannah, who dedicated Samuel to God, and of Joseph and Mary, who dedicated Jesus at the Temple. It also brought to mind my own mother.

Some of my earliest memories are of her reminding me of the vow she made on my behalf: “Son, before you were even born, I dedicated you to the Lord. I asked God not to let you be born alive if you were not going to serve Him.”

Imagine the impact that had on a child — and later on a teenager and young man. Proverbs 31 is widely known for describing the Proverbs 31 wife, but we must not forget the Proverbs 31 mother — a mother who made vows concerning her children and used them to guide them in the right direction.


Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Proverbs 31 Mothers — Part 2

Perhaps you are a parent who dedicated your children to God, making vows of guidance and protection. This dedication is more than a request for God’s favor; it is also a commitment from the parent to live faithfully and uphold those vows.

Or perhaps you were a child on the receiving end of such vows. You may not remember them, but they still stand. Whether parent or child, let us leverage these vows to the fullest today.

Long before there was a Proverbs 31 wife, there was a Proverbs 31 mother — shaping the future through vows of honor and devotion. The Proverbs 31 wife is celebrated for her tireless labor and care, bringing material blessings to her family (Proverbs 31:28–29). Yet for those blessings to truly matter, spiritual values must be instilled early in life, and that is the crucial role of Proverbs 31 mothers and fathers.

This is my family and me at the top

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