Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Encouraging Word

The Lord is good, a strong refuge when trouble comes. He is close to those who trust in him.
Nahum 1:7 NLT

Ideal Family - Part 4

🌟 Ideal Family - Part 4



🧱 God-Given Structures

God created three core structures to bring order, direction, and protection in our lives:

1. Family

  • Genesis 1:27-28 (NKJV)

    “Be fruitful and multiply... have dominion...”

  • Key Points:

    • The first structure God created.

    • Designed for fruitfulness, multiplication, and stewardship over creation.

    • The foundation for all human society.


2. Government

  • Genesis 9:6 (NKJV)

    “Whoever sheds man’s blood...”

  • Romans 13:1, 4 (NIV)

    “There is no authority except that which God has established...”

  • Romans 13:2 (NKJV)

    “Whoever resists authority resists the ordinance of God...”

  • Key Points:

    • Created to enforce justice and maintain order.

    • Government is God’s servant for our good.

    • Resisting authority = resisting God’s structure.


3. Church

  • I Corinthians 12:18 (NKJV)

    “God has set the members... in the body just as He pleased.”

  • Ephesians 4:11-12 (NKJV)

    “For the equipping of the saints... for the edifying of the Body of Christ.”

  • Key Points:

    • We are the Church, and each member has a place.

    • Church exists to:

      • Mature believers

      • Equip for ministry

      • Build up the Body

    • Commitment is proven through trials and perseverance.

    • Staying despite imperfections leads to growth.


🛠️ The Purpose of Structure

  • Structures (Family, Government, Church) are gifts from God.

  • Ignoring or rebelling against any of them will hurt us.

  • Correction is how God brings us back into structure.


⚖️ Correction: God's Tool for Growth

Scriptures on Correction:

  • Proverbs 29:15, 17 (NKJV) – Discipline brings wisdom and peace.

  • II Timothy 3:16-17 (NKJV) – Scripture is profitable for correction and training.

  • 2 Timothy 4:2 (NIV) – Correct, rebuke, and encourage with patience.

  • Galatians 6:1 (NIRV) – Restore others gently.

  • Hebrews 12:11 (NKJV) – Chastening is painful but produces righteousness.

  • Ephesians 6:4 (NKJV) – Train and admonish children in the Lord.

  • I John 3:18-20 (NKJV) – Our heart convicts us when we’re wrong.

Greek Word Studies:

  • Chastening (Paideia): Training by action, includes discipline.

  • Admonition (Nouthesia): Training by words, “putting in mind.”


💡 Key Takeaways

  • Correction is necessary and comes from God.

  • Don’t expect correction to feel good — it's not about comfort, but growth.

  • If we learn to correct ourselves, we can avoid needing correction from others.

  • Correction is done for people, not to people — a gift, not a punishment.

  • True repentance includes change, not just saying sorry.

  • Getting caught is not the beginning of trouble — it's the start of getting free.


📌 Final Thoughts

  • All great relationships endure trials and correction.

  • Structure only works if we flow with it.

  • God uses structure to bless, protect, and mature us.

Monday, July 1, 2013

The Life of a Single Mom

  Please check out

The Life of a Single Mom    on klove site


Web Site: thelifeofasinglemom.com/

What K‑LOVE Highlights About “The Life of a Single Mom”

  • K‑LOVE published a feature article “LOCAL Closer Look: The Life of a Single Mom in Baton Rouge, LA” with an interview of Jennifer Maggio, CEO of The Life of a Single Mom. K-LOVE

    • In that interview, Maggio describes how the ministry began with just three mothers and has grown to impact over a million mothers nationwide. K-LOVE

    • She speaks about challenges single moms face—emotional, mental, financial—and how TLSM meets those needs via launch groups, Single Mom University, and events. K-LOVE

    • The feature is part of K‑LOVE’s “Closer Look” (a “Faith Matters / Local” series) which highlights ministries in specific communities. K-LOVE


📝 What This Suggests / What to Consider

Strengths

  1. Visibility & Credibility

    • Being featured by K‑LOVE gives TLSM exposure, especially among listeners who align with Christian radio. It’s a sort of third‑party validation.

    • It suggests a relationship or at least mutual recognition between TLSM and K‑LOVE (or its media arm).

  2. Narrative & Storytelling Emphasis

    • The K‑LOVE article focuses on the story—where they started, how they grew, and what needs they address. That’s good from a communications standpoint.

    • It humanizes the ministry by sharing real challenges and giving a behind‑the-scenes peek.

  3. Local Connection

    • The “Closer Look” is local (Baton Rouge), which helps ground the ministry in a real community—not just abstract national reach.

    • It might help local adoption—churches in that region might see TLSM as relevant and accessible.

Things to Watch / Questions Raised

  1. How Deep Is the Feature?

    • The K‑LOVE feature is journalistic / promotional in nature—it’s not a critical audit. It highlights success, mission, and vision.

    • It does not (in the article) deeply examine challenges, failures, financial data, governance, etc. So it gives a useful but partial view.

  2. Selective Emphasis

    • The article is likely edited to present the positive framing. Ministries often use media features to highlight their strengths.

    • We don’t see in that article how they handle critique, disagreement, or difficult places—those are less often featured.

  3. Dependency on Media Endorsements

    • While media visibility is valuable, it can sometimes create a “halo effect”—where listeners or partners assume legitimacy without deeper vetting.

    • It’s good to have such endorsements, but they should not substitute for due diligence.

  4. Local vs National Consistency

    • The article talks about the Baton Rouge version of TLSM. One must consider: Do all other local chapters or groups operate with the same standards, values, and quality?

    • How much oversight or standardization is there across different cities? (The “Closer Look” does not address that.)

  5. Perception Management

    • The messaging is well polished. That’s expected, but it also means you should check how stories match practices.

    • For instance, when they talk about “impacted over a million mothers,” what does “impacted” mean (contact, events, groups, classes)?

Encouraging Word

The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm.
Exodus 14:14 NLT

family website

family website

1. If you want to use Shutterfly for a family site

Shutterfly is primarily a service for photo prints, photo books, cards, wall art, gifts, etc. Shutterfly
It’s not exactly a full “website builder” like Wax or Squarespace, but you can use it as a way to share photos, create albums, and make keepsakes for your family. Here’s how you could use it:

  • Upload family photos to albums

  • Share album links with relatives

  • Create photo books, calendars, or wall art as family keepsakes

  • Use it as a private “gallery” space for your family to view and browse

  • Use the Shutterfly “Stories” or “Share Sites” (if available) to create narrative pages with text + images

If you tell me which features of Shutterfly you want (sharing, printing, privacy, etc.), I can guide you step-by-step.


2. If you want to build a family website modeled after Shutterfly

If you’d like to build your own family website that functions like Shutterfly (photo galleries, albums, ordering prints, etc.), here are steps and tips:

A. Platform / Technology Choices

You’ll want a platform that supports:

  • Photo galleries / albums

  • User accounts / privacy (so only family can see certain content)

  • E-commerce or “order prints” features (optional)

  • Blog or stories section

  • Responsive design (mobile + desktop)

Some options:

  • WordPress + gallery / e-commerce plugins

  • Web flow + photo gallery embeds

  • Squarespace / Wax (they have gallery + shop features)

  • Custom build (if you know web development)

B. Key Pages / Sections

Here are typical sections for a family website:

  • Home / Welcome

  • Our Story / Family History

  • Photo Galleries / Albums

  • Events / Calendar (birthdays, reunions, holidays)

  • Blog / Updates / News

  • Keepsakes / Store (prints, albums, gifts)

  • Contact / Guestbook / Comments

  • Privacy / Access (e.g. password-protected areas)

C. Naming, Design & Content

  • Choose a warm, inviting name (e.g. “The Smith Family Album,” “Our Family Story”)

  • Use a clean, photo-first design

  • On your homepage, include a greeting, recent family photos, and navigation

  • On “About” or “Story” page: share how your family started, names, backgrounds

  • Gallery pages: allow sorting by year, event, person

  • For a blog: short updates, quotes, reflections

D. Example of Homepage Text

Welcome to the [Your Family Name] Family Website
Here we share our stories, photos, and memories. Look through our albums, see what’s new, or order a keepsake to cherish forever. Whether you’re near or far, we’re glad you’re here with us.


Ideal Family - Part 3

🌟 Ideal Family - Part 4

🧱 God-Given Structures

God created three core structures to bring order, direction, and protection in our lives:

1. Family

  • Genesis 1:27-28 (NKJV)

    “Be fruitful and multiply... have dominion...”

  • Key Points:

    • The first structure God created.

    • Designed for fruitfulness, multiplication, and stewardship over creation.

    • The foundation for all human society.


2. Government

  • Genesis 9:6 (NKJV)

    “Whoever sheds man’s blood...”

  • Romans 13:1, 4 (NIV)

    “There is no authority except that which God has established...”

  • Romans 13:2 (NKJV)

    “Whoever resists authority resists the ordinance of God...”

  • Key Points:

    • Created to enforce justice and maintain order.

    • Government is God’s servant for our good.

    • Resisting authority = resisting God’s structure.


3. Church

  • I Corinthians 12:18 (NKJV)

    “God has set the members... in the body just as He pleased.”

  • Ephesians 4:11-12 (NKJV)

    “For the equipping of the saints... for the edifying of the Body of Christ.”

  • Key Points:

    • We are the Church, and each member has a place.

    • Church exists to:

      • Mature believers

      • Equip for ministry

      • Build up the Body

    • Commitment is proven through trials and perseverance.

    • Staying despite imperfections leads to growth.


🛠️ The Purpose of Structure

  • Structures (Family, Government, Church) are gifts from God.

  • Ignoring or rebelling against any of them will hurt us.

  • Correction is how God brings us back into structure.


⚖️ Correction: God's Tool for Growth

Scriptures on Correction:

  • Proverbs 29:15, 17 (NKJV) – Discipline brings wisdom and peace.

  • II Timothy 3:16-17 (NKJV) – Scripture is profitable for correction and training.

  • 2 Timothy 4:2 (NIV) – Correct, rebuke, and encourage with patience.

  • Galatians 6:1 (NIRV) – Restore others gently.

  • Hebrews 12:11 (NKJV) – Chastening is painful but produces righteousness.

  • Ephesians 6:4 (NKJV) – Train and admonish children in the Lord.

  • I John 3:18-20 (NKJV) – Our heart convicts us when we’re wrong.

Greek Word Studies:

  • Chastening (Paideia): Training by action, includes discipline.

  • Admonition (Nouthesia): Training by words, “putting in mind.”


💡 Key Takeaways

  • Correction is necessary and comes from God.

  • Don’t expect correction to feel good — it's not about comfort, but growth.

  • If we learn to correct ourselves, we can avoid needing correction from others.

  • Correction is done for people, not to people — a gift, not a punishment.

  • True repentance includes change, not just saying sorry.

  • Getting caught is not the beginning of trouble — it's the start of getting free.


📌 Final Thoughts

  • All great relationships endure trials and correction.

  • Structure only works if we flow with it.

  • God uses structure to bless, protect, and mature us.

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Encouraging Word

Since God chose you to be the holy people He loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.

This is my family and me at the top

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